The power to GIVE

TRYING TO GET WITHOUT FIRST GIVING IS AS FRUITLESS AS TRYING TO REAP WITHOUT HAVING SOWN.

The Bible states that we reap what we sow. The most fertile soil in the world is barren unless seeds have been properly planted, cultivated, and nurtured. The relationship between giving and getting is constant in everything you do. To succeed in any endeavor, you must first invest a generous portion of your time and talents if you expect ever to earn a return on your investment. You have to give before you get. Its all a matter of attitude. You may occasionally be disappointed if you are not rewarded for your efforts, but if you demand payment for your services before you render them, you can expect a lifetime of disappointment and frustration. If you cheerfully do your best before asking for any compensation, you can expect a bountiful harvest of the greatest rewards life has to offer.

Corus...

Well, there goes the weekend..
Spend these two days with a bunch of pretty gorgeous babes.
Hmm... That's interesting...

...but you might wanna ask why I'm with them.
That's the part that makes you start thinking..
Why this dude doing with all these babes. ")

Well, actually we're on training.
Conducted by charming lady Alice.

Huhu... Learned a lot...
The whole process is smooth.. and mouth full...
Yeah, we ate alot...
And it does makes me feel fat... a bit la...

And we ended it all up with a photo session... which I was surrounded by ^o^ these gorgeous babes.... kekeke ")

Can't wait to see those photos~~

INITIATIVITY

YOU DONT HAVE TO DO MORE THAN YOU ARE PAID FOR, BUT YOU CAN PUSH YOURSELF AHEAD MIGHTY FAST BY DOING IT VOLUNTARILY.

Initiative is that exceedingly rare quality that prompts-no, impels-a person to do what ought to be done without being told. Its also a commodity upon which the world places great value. Initiative will immediately set you apart from the competition, whether you are an entrepreneur, a professional services provider, a corporate staffer, or an hourly worker. Your boss, your clients, or your customers will notice you and come to depend upon you because you have shown yourself to be a person who can be counted upon always to do the right thing.

Surviving with RM3k

Let's do some simple calculations here.

In Malaysia , the average family income is RM3,000 /month
(where father works, mother doesn't).

I understand there are many families whose
monthly income does not reach RM3,000,
but, to make things simple,
let's take RM3,000 as the figure. Ok lah, right?

Okay, let's start rolling with a family which has
Papa, Mama, 1 daughter and 1 son. Ngam-ngam ....

Calculation starts...

Electricity and water bill: RM100
(No air-con, No home theatre, No water heater ... ok?)

Phone bill ( Telekom): RM100

Meals for a happy family: RM775
(3 meals on RM25/day, RM25 for 4 persons...
Have solution - Eat more Vegetable at home .you may save a lot RM100-200 )

Papa makan / teh-tarik during working hrs: RM155
(RM5/day, RM5 ... can eat what?
Eat main course only , bring water from home . No KOPI , TEH , MILO etc..)

Car repayment: RM400
(A proton saga aeroback, 7 yrs repayment)

Petrol (living in city, traffic-jam) : RM300
(go to work, bring son to school,
only can afford one car running)

Insurance: RM650
(kids, wife and myself)

House repayment: RM750
(low cost housing repayment for 30 yrs,
retired still have to work to pay!)

Tuition: RM80
(got that cheap meh? i don't think so
only 1 children tuition, older teach younger sister/ brother )

Older children pocket money @ school: RM20
(RM1/day, eat bread?)

School fees: RM30
(enough ah? )

School books and etc: RM100
(always got extra to pay in school)

Younger children milk powder: RM50
(cannot have the DHA, BHA, PHA one, expensive)

Miscellaneous: RM100
(shampoo, rice, sauce, toilet paper)

Oh wait!!! I have to stop here, so...
No Astro,
no movie @ cinema,
no DVD,
no CD,
no online ,
no shopping,
cannot KFC,
cannot McDonald,
cannot eat at restaurant ,
cannot go Park walk during weekend (petrol expensive),
no chit chat on phone with grandparents, and etc...

Let's use a calculator to total up... WALAO EH! Shit! RM3,610 already...

EPF belum potong, income tax lagi......... oledi RM3,610 ....

How to survive lah tuan-tuan dan puan-puan sekalian ???

Our Deputy Prime Minister asked us to change lifestyle?

How to change? Don't eat? Don't work? Don't send children to school and study?

Besides that, I believe in Malaysia population, there are millions of rakyat Malaysia which still don't earn RM3,000/month! !!

What is this? Inilah Malaysia Boleh... Sorry ... it should be Malaysians Boleh , because we're still alive and kicking!!

Our politicians must be mad!!!!

No wonder so many Ah Long around lah....

。茫

噢
下班
快步走
輕快鉄站
手伸進褲袋
我的媽呀
鑰匙呢
不在
賽

第二次下班
沒帶鑰匙
跑回去
滿臉
汗
上樓
打電話
老闆開門
怎麽老是你？

盛大婚禮

Well, 中間那位就是新娘，我的好友。

笑了一整個晚上的她，看起來是那麽的僵直。。

哈哈~

爲了襯托她，來個酷酷的造型先，目光不要看鏡頭。。。

旁邊的發哥還是那個樣子。。。6-7年沒見，這傢伙還是當初我們畢業時的樣子，除了噸位好像稍微減少了，其他的都一如以往。
這是好事。 " )



再Well，本人隔壁的那位，就是當晚除了新娘之外最charm的美少女。

登臺的刹那，不知道俘虜了多少顆怦怦亂跳的心~~

哈哈，絕對是當晚的一號少男殺手~~ " )

嗯嗯，本人有幸能夠與她合照，應該羡慕死不少人吧？ （自戀中。。請勿打擾）

奇兵家族合照，連很久沒有“浦頭”的“打劫”都出現了，很好很好。

算算人頭還是少了幾個人呢
阿聰沒來，阿向剛好不在現場。。。太可惜了










嗯嗯。。奇兵男子組和新人合照。。
阿向還是沒有在= =|||

慘了。。好像有失憶症了。。。
當天很多feel很澎湃想要寫些什麽的。。。
怎麽今天就沒啥mood呢。。。

累。。先睡，有mood再補充。。。
大家晚安。

喜悅

嗯~~
上班的第三天
發薪水了。。。

特發此帖 以示慶祝~~ “）

p/s 薪水拿去買書了。。哈哈

書展。。購書樂

下班
左思右想
在踏下階梯最後一級的時候決定往左
目標 -- KLCC
到站，越過眾山眾海。。跨越半天長的隧道
到達目的地。。的前方
發現“免費”兩個碩大的方塊字
以及FREE ADMISSION字眼
大步走過--才發現荷包蛋一樣大的字下面還有無數蠅頭小字
18嵗以下、身穿校服、60嵗以上等等的字一個一個把我衝擊的一步一步往後退
一直到櫃檯
後面就是幾位身穿大紅圍裙的少女
把50大元換成4小紅1小青3小藍
以及白色護腕裝備一件，魔法書一本
然後 進場

端著菜籃繞場走走停停了數圈
把書放進籃子裏走不久又開始往外掏
沒法子，現錢不夠只好挑“更”想要買的
一個多小時后，離場

打包了4本書
留下130
一起帶走的還有一絲絲的滿足感
和逐漸堆滿乳酸的雙臂

書名《Q & A》、《知識與囯富論》、《轉山 邊境流浪者》、《飛同凡想》
最後一本是本地出版
算是稍微支持一下馬華文學。。

嗯，就這樣
看書去

OL Restart

Well, 這裡寫的OL並不是一般意義上的Office Lady ,而是Office Life..
闊別一年8月又10天的辦公室生活，終于回歸。

特別發帖，以示慶祝~！！ yeeah~~

不用再日夜顛倒
不用再三餐不繼
也不用六親不認

準時上班。。準時下班
再也沒有無窮無盡的unclaimable OT
但是也失去了無限暢飲的sbux飲料。。呵呵

現在的我，下班了之後還可以兜到KLCC逛書展
公共假日可以名正言順在家休息
星期六可以策劃去爬山。。。

“活著”。。真好

P/S：剛下班的時候好像不小心瞄到《李燕美》的樣子。。。
那副拽拽我最靚的lansi樣子還是一如以往。。。
gosh怎麽會到處遇到舊同學
還好不是同一家公司上班。。不然。。。不然erm..我還能怎樣。。" )

舊的結束，新的開始

今天是在sbux的最後一天。。。
剛下班的時候被噴了一身的whipped cream。。還有滿頭滿頸的chocolate。。
簡單在店裏清洗一下后，和edwin去看電影。。。到現在才回到家
粘粘的，全身都不舒服。
洗澡后身上仿佛還有whipped cream的味道
那種帶點vanila香草味的牛奶= =|||


今天聼到一個消息
是關於一位朋友的
雖然大家不是很熟
但是偶然聽到她的消息還是覺得震驚

聽説她上個月懷孕了
是意外
而且家裏人還不知道
well
這個年紀的她
似乎應該還在煩惱明天要穿什麽衣服去上課的豆蔻年華
沒想到已經在煩惱應該怎樣瞞天過海把肚子裏那塊肉拿掉

不知道應該說些什麽
但是還是覺得惋惜
現在她的人生應該開始走向另外一個軌道了吧
well, 祝福你, all the best
手術順利。